using principles from the Bible,
checking with others in our community of fellow believers,
being aware of circumstances,
praying regularly and learning to listen for the "still small voice" of the Holy Spirit,
using logical reasoning,
and much more.
HUMILITY -- justified due to uncertainty of knowing will of God (for specific situations), but we can obey biblical commandments & principles, we can have good intentions (wanting to follow obediently), with attitude of wanting, heart & mind, decisions & actions - feeling & thinking, behaving - feelings thoughts behaviors actions
levels/kinds of leading & following:
God leading, we follow
one human leads, others follow:
ballroom dancing leader & follower,
husband & wife (?) -- leader/husband must become worthy of GOOD leading, follower/wife must trust -- lots of LINKS
pastor & congregation
supervisor & supervised [boss], teacher & students,